tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75448264665757185862024-03-13T00:24:42.826-04:00A Mile In Their ShoesDedicated To Those Who Face Adversity With Great CourageChrishttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08758969467352230385noreply@blogger.comBlogger42125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7544826466575718586.post-76260635650265454132013-07-14T07:36:00.001-04:002013-07-14T07:49:00.226-04:00Mile Marker: Finding Fairy Music<table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody>
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<align justify="">Since I was a child, I have retreated to the woods to restore myself. Yet, in those surroundings, I find it impossible to complete a straight run, as the distractions of numerous sights and sounds require pause and close examination. A few days ago, an escape to the woods placed me directly in the path of an unusual "<a href="http://www.fs.fed.us/wildflowers/interesting/mycotrophic/monotropa_uniflora.shtml" target="_blank">ghost plant</a>," also known as "Indian Pipes." However, I'm convinced these names are misnomers. This enchanting beauty seemed more like the instrument of wood fairies. I could imagine tiny wings fluttering against the delicate white bells, luring the lilt of soft chimes to mingle high among rustling leaves, where human ears mistake the melody for bird song.</align></div>
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Sometimes, it's better to travel without earbuds. It's beneficial to avoid that familiar compulsion to finish the distance at a rapid pace. Stop to look for something splendid, something scarce. Tip your ears to the breeze. You just might hear the music of fairies.</div>
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Here's to the next mile!</div>
Chrishttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08758969467352230385noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7544826466575718586.post-9197475702798199872013-06-29T06:51:00.000-04:002013-07-19T12:09:57.991-04:00Mile Marker: Just One Good Thing<div style="text-align: justify;">
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As I slogged along my last mile, the discomfort of a fugitive pebble in my shoe required that I stop to remove it. I sat on a step near the sidewalk, holding one shoe in my hand, when my eye caught the striking beauty of a single lily swaying in the gentle morning breeze. Its silky magenta petals burst outward from a brilliant yellow center, and the entire bloom contrasted against underlying textures, woven of muddled earth and sharp green leaves. Quickly, as the breeze ebbed, even before returning my foot to my shoe, I tried to capture the image.<br />
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<a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-nHobvN-PG_Q/Uc34GN34z-I/AAAAAAAAAZQ/KTPe4NKFCaw/s282/magentalilycropped2.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="167" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-nHobvN-PG_Q/Uc34GN34z-I/AAAAAAAAAZQ/KTPe4NKFCaw/s200/magentalilycropped2.jpg" width="200" /></a>Equipped only with an inexpensive cell phone camera and my own lack of ability as a photographer, I made an effort to keep the reflections of the morning sun at bay. Admittedly, the resulting image was very bad. I even managed to capture a bit of my own socked foot in the upper right corner. But, I needed that photograph. It was my one good thing for the day.<br />
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Once home, I experimented with a picture-imaging tool, cropping here, tweaking there, and found that the resulting watercolor-type image became appealing enough to serve as the wallpaper on my laptop. It is a simple reminder: as we plod along our varied paths in life, any distance carries the risk of discovering that a pebble has found its way underfoot. Stop to dislodge it, then pay close attention. Every painful pebble is accompanied by an opportunity to find just one good thing. Perhaps that one good thing lies nearby. Perhaps it lies within you. Tweak it, minimize the imperfections. Work with it until it makes you smile.<br />
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Get moving. It's time to find just one good thing for today. Here's to the next mile!</div>
Chrishttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08758969467352230385noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7544826466575718586.post-16702436122456487482013-06-11T09:12:00.001-04:002013-06-29T11:55:51.312-04:00Mile Marker: Wardrobe Malfunction<a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-nPFRZRH6d_g/Ua21rH_csVI/AAAAAAAAAVA/3RarwaScRvE/s1600/stopdiabetes.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="88" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-nPFRZRH6d_g/Ua21rH_csVI/AAAAAAAAAVA/3RarwaScRvE/s200/stopdiabetes.jpg" width="200" /></a>
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Blame it on the <a href="http://www.run-in-their-shoes.blogspot.com/2013/06/a-dragons-gift.html">diabetes dragon</a>. Apparently, I slogged around for a couple of years in the midst of a wardrobe malfunction. I say "apparently," but it wasn't at all apparent to me. I attributed most of the changes in my body to age, stress, and . . . age! I didn't realize that I should have been getting even more exercise, making even better choices about every single bite of food I stuck in my mouth, and extracting blood from my fingers with a needle several times a day. I thought I was being pretty judicious because, after all, I already was battling heart disease. But, my wardrobe was all wrong. I should have had different accessories, with awareness being the most important one.<br />
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If you are vaguely like my brother, <a href="http://www.run-in-their-shoes.blogspot.com/2013/06/shoes-of-humility-and-honor-tony_2596.html" target="_blank">Tony</a>, or me before our diagnoses, you've never given a fleeting thought to being diabetic. But, did you know that there is a precursor to the disease -- a red flag -- to the development of type 2, called "prediabetes"? The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) published a <a href="http://www.cdc.gov/diabetes/pubs/pdf/ndfs_2011.pdf">fact sheet</a> in 2011 that calculates an astounding 30% of the U.S. population over age 20, about 79 million of us, is prediabetic. Just as I was oblivious to this condition, a large portion of those affected have no knowledge of it. That's only a smidgen of the bad news. Statistics reveal that such ignorance about one's prediabetic state is very dangerous.</div>
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Prediabetes is a condition in which individuals have blood glucose levels higher than normal, but not high enough to be classified as diabetes. Unchecked, this condition can lead you straight down a path to healthcare hell.<br />
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In its <a href="http://www.cdc.gov/diabetes/prevention/prediabetes.htm" target="_blank">National Diabetes Prevention Program</a>, the CDC reports, "If you have prediabetes, you are 5 to 15 times more likely to develop type 2 diabetes than people with normal blood glucose (blood sugar) levels." </div>
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And, once that prediabetic condition crosses the threshold into diabetes, you'll be much poorer, because medical expenses will DOUBLE. Take a gander at the picture above. It represents about $100 worth of undesirable accessories that probably wouldn't have been necessary, had I known about my prediabeties. To boot, those accessories constantly need to be replenished in an effort to avoid the following complications:</div>
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Now, if that isn't enough to throw you at your doctor's feet to beg for a simple diagnostic test, you might want to try the <a href="http://www.diabetes.org/" target="_blank">American Diabetes Association's</a> online risk test. "It's fast. It's free. It's easy." Click <a href="http://www.diabetes.org/diabetes-basics/prevention/diabetes-risk-test/?loc=DropDownDB-RiskTest">here </a>and follow the directions -- especially if you get to the part that says, "Talk to your doctor to see if additional testing is needed."<br />
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The good news about prediabetes is that with just a couple of new accessories -- awareness and effort -- most people can STOP its progression and avoid walking blindly into the type 2 diabetes brick wall.</div>
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My new wardrobe accessories and I are heading out the door to STOP diabetes in the <a href="http://www.irunagainstdiabetes.com/" target="_blank">I Run Against Diabetes</a> event. Why are YOU waiting? Here's to the next mile!</div>
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P.S. Nick, Missy, AJ, Mark and Avis -- I'm giving you "that look"!</div>
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Chrishttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08758969467352230385noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7544826466575718586.post-27705826455666160112013-06-08T18:21:00.001-04:002016-10-06T08:40:40.216-04:00Shoes of Humility and Honor -- Tony<table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="float: left; margin-right: 1em; text-align: left;"><tbody>
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<i>"Humility makes great men twice honorable." -- Benjamin Franklin</i><br />
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A mirror is a mysterious and deceptive thing. Bearing in mind Ben Franklin's observation, it would seem that humility prevents great and honorable men from having a clear view of the mirror's display.<br />
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Folklore and movies often depict the terrifying consequences of a single glance into a mirror. Alice was plagued with Jabberwocks, Snow White was stalked by the Wicked Queen, and Frodo was hunted by the Eye of Sauron. Fictitious mirrors can foretell the destruction of individuals or entire societies. They even have the power to capture the spirits of the departed, impeding their abilities to float along to a more peaceful realm. But, in reality, mirrors are powerful, too.<br />
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Some of us examine every detail of ourselves, right down to individual pores, as we primp and priss, trying to disguise what nature did not perfect. Many of us avoid looking into a mirror at all costs, except for the minimum necessary. In particular, we dislike full-length reflections; that is, those that reveal who is standing in our shoes.</div>
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One thing is certain about mirrors. Each of us sees something different, even when we are examining the same image. Take my brother, Tony, for example, who is pictured above as a young man. When I look at his whole reflection, I see shoes occupied by an honorable man, gifted with intelligence, humor and immense courage. A single glance at his [still] enormous brown eyes reveals an uncommon depth of wisdom and compassion. Likely, he is uncomfortable with my description of his attributes, because he does not see the same reflection I see. His humility forbids it. </div>
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As with other first-born siblings, Tony always traveled in shoes that compelled him to over-achieve. The eldest of five children, he was a recipient of the <a href="http://www.pagefoundation.org/?page=STAR1Home">Student Teacher Achievement Recognition</a> (STAR) as a senior in high school. He was appointed to the United States Naval Academy, and later served his country for several years as a Navy Seal in southeast Asia. Yet, he does not boast about these outstanding accomplishments.</div>
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Even when considering his experiences as a Seal, Tony minimizes his own remarkable character. He recalls being with his partner for one harrowing covert operation. Instead of attributing his fortitude in such dire circumstances to his own resolute nature, Tony credits his father.</div>
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It was a kind of an epiphany about the wisdom of some things my father had tried to teach me and the way he had tried to prepare me for life.<br />
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So, there we were, lying in six-foot high, thick, tough grass. It was raining and we were soaked from above and from the soggy ground beneath. Neither of us had eaten since the night before, we’d been too busy in circumstances that just did not allow a meal break. Neither of us had eaten a hot meal since before we deployed for this particular mission; and that had been more than a week before. Critters (I’m not sure what kind, other than they were probably quite unpleasant) were crawling on and over us. On top of it all, folks that wanted to do us harm (even unto death) were walking within 10 feet of us, looking for us.<br />
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At that point, I just had to put my face in the dirt to keep from laughing aloud. I was shaking with suppressed laughter. My partner gently grasped my ankle as if to say, “Are you alright? Please be quiet.” I’m sure he thought the stress had caused me to lose it completely.</blockquote>
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Later, when "the bad guys gave up" looking for them, Tony explained his loss of composure to his comrade.</div>
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I was remembering something my old man told me. He was a f---ing prophet. He told me one time, when I was whining about some disciplinary action he’d taken, that I was going to be standing in a hole with mud to my ankles. Rain would be running down my back and I would be soaked and cold. I would not have eaten at all for a couple of days and not had any hot food for weeks. People all around would be trying to kill me. My friends would be complaining about how terrible things were. I’d be able to laugh and say, "You ought’a had to live for eighteen years with my old man!”</blockquote>
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Ultimately, Tony lost his combat partner, whom he characterized as "the other half of me." The experience defies description. Adjectives such as "horrid" and "tragic" are inadequate. Then came the onset of post-traumatic stress disorder (<a href="http://www.ptsd.va.gov/public/PTSD-overview/basics/what-is-ptsd.asp" target="_blank">PTSD</a>), which the <a href="http://www.ptsd.va.gov/public/PTSD-overview/basics/how-common-is-ptsd.asp">Department of Veterans Affairs</a> estimates affects 30% of Vietnam-era veterans.<br />
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However, even someone who survived combat is susceptible to powerful psychological and emotional impacts when diagnosed with a chronic disease. Twenty years ago, at the age of 40, the news of Tony's type II diabetes forever altered the direction he would travel. Like other newly-diagnosed patients, he had to confront the implications of a serious and frightening illness. As author Tracey Wilson writes in her article entitled <i style="text-align: justify;"><a href="http://ezinearticles.com/?The-Emotional-Impact-of-Diabetes&id=200664" target="_blank">The Emotional Impact of Diabetes</a></i>, "It is totally life changing for those diagnosed. Eating becomes literally a matter of life and death . . . [this] is not just merely staying alive - it's trying to stay alive without ending up blind, on kidney dialysis, with severe nerve damage, or amputation, just to name a few." <a href="http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1070773/" style="text-align: justify;" target="_blank">The National Institutes of Health</a> also report that "Patients with chronic conditions often have to adjust their aspirations, lifestyle, and employment. Many grieve about their predicament before adjusting to it."</div>
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It is no surprise, then, that Tony's initial reaction to his diabetes mirrored those described above. He grieved his previous lifestyle, and was forced to trudge a road littered with uncertainty. </div>
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The first and most dramatic thing I remember about being diagnosed as a diabetic was, "Holy crap! I have an incurable disease." It actually made me sit down and think about what that meant to me. I hated it. The very idea made me angry. In fact, it enraged me. I had already been through two years in Southeast Asia as a Navy Seal; been wounded; fought with and pretty much beat down PTSD – and then, there was this.<br />
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I have come to know myself well enough to know that kind of rage in me really means that I am afraid . . . I was afraid of what having an incurable disease meant for me in terms of lifestyle change. What long-term impact would it have on my family; my ability to work; my ability to enjoy my life?</blockquote>
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In Tony's case, diabetes is thought to be a possible result of long-term exposure to <a href="http://www.diabetes.org/living-with-diabetes/complications/related-conditions/agent-orange.html">Agent Orange</a>, which contains the toxic chemical dioxin. As if the impact to his own health wasn't enough to bear, Tony also had good reason to agonize over the health of his then-young son. Grave conditions, some of which are known at birth, some of which are unknown until later in life, are among the lengthy list of associated disorders in offspring of veterans who served in the Vietnam theater, all discussed in Betty Mekdeci's article posted on <a href="https://vva.org/?s=Betty+Mekdeci" target="_blank">The Vietnam Veterans of America</a> website.<br />
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How does Tony explain his ability to stride past the adversity of diabetes and persevere with courage? In true form, he first credits his wife, Joan. "She's helped me alot. I love her so much," he told me once. Then, his unfailing wit compells him to add, "You ought’a had to live for eighteen years with my old man!"<br />
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It seems to me that Ben Franklin's wisdom is worth repeating. "Humility makes great men twice honorable." When Tony looks into the mirror, he does not see who is standing in his shoes. But, others do. Certainly, I do. I will be borrowing the shoes of a great man. I already know I cannot fill them, but, I'll proudly sling his tired, old boots over my shoulder and carry them for the next few miles. They will remind me that when the next step feels too difficult, when the road seems long, it's important to focus on honor and humility. In fact, I'll carry them twice. <br />
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Here's to the next mile!</div>
Chrishttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08758969467352230385noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7544826466575718586.post-89764504366973223412013-06-04T12:24:00.000-04:002013-06-12T13:44:57.742-04:00Mile Marker: $15.00 Amazon.com Card Giveaway!<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<i><b>NOTE: All four Amazon gift cards have been claimed! I hope you'll sign up for the Inaugural Virtual Challenge anyway. Keep watching for the next giveaway designed to increase awareness of and STOP diabetes!</b></i></div>
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It's time for the first of several giveaways designed to STOP diabetes! <br />
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One simple way to prevent the onset of type II diabetes is to get more exercise. And, this inaugural "virtual challenge" is a great opportunity to get started with that goal! All you have to do is go to the site and <a href="http://www.irunagainstdiabetes.com/#!registration/cvbw">register</a> to participate. Then run or walk, alone or with a group, anytime between June 21 and June 24, 2013. The cost is $10, plus a $3.25 processing fee, for a total of $13.25. You'll receive a T-shirt and a medal, along with the satisfaction that comes with reaching a goal. The registration deadline is growing short, so hurry!</div>
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But, how would you also like a chance to receive one of four $15.00 <a href="http://www.amazon.com/">amazon.com</a> gift cards? That means you'll be totally reimbursed for the cost of registration, plus $1.75! That's right -- it's so important to me that you get out and WALK to prevent diabetes, I'll pay <b><i>four</i></b> people to do it!<br />
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<li style="text-align: justify;">Email me at casmarsh56@aol.com with a brief, positive comment about a person you know who has diabetes (first names only, please). In return, I'll email you with my fax number and a special identifier to write on your registration receipt.</li>
<li style="text-align: justify;">Click <a href="http://www.irunagainstdiabetes.com/#!registration/cvbw">here</a> and register via Active.com for the Inaugural Virtual Challenge.</li>
<li style="text-align: justify;"><a href="mailto:casmarsh56@aol.com">Print out</a> a copy of your Registration Receipt, write the special identifier on it, and fax it to me. (Feel free to block out any other identifying information on the receipt. I just need to know you've registered.)</li>
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<span style="text-align: justify;">The first four people who complete the directions will receive a $15.00 gift card via email to spend at </span><a href="http://amazon.com/" style="text-align: justify;">amazon.com</a>!<br />
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My diabetes and I already have registered. What's stopping YOU?</div>
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Here's to the next mile!</div>
Chrishttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08758969467352230385noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7544826466575718586.post-49906364731621240862013-06-03T07:53:00.001-04:002013-06-03T09:41:15.024-04:00Mile Marker: On the Road Again<br />
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If I can do this, YOU can do this! The American Diabetes Association wants to increase awareness through fitness. Run, walk, or crawl, as they say, anytime between June 21 through June 24, 2013. Select your own distance -- 5K (3.1 miles), 10K, or 13.1. Go alone or with a group. You have FOUR days to complete your distance. Get the whole family out for fun and fitness' sake. Just DO it!</div>
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This event is pure genius! Failure is not possible, unless you do nothing. Click <a href="http://www.irunagainstdiabetes.com/">here</a> and navigate to the "Registration" tab to sign up for a modest fee of $13.25. The fee covers the cost of your entry, netting you a T-shirt and a medal. And, participant bibs can be printed right from the website. When the event is complete, participants simply submit their completion times via the site's <a href="http://www.irunagainstdiabetes.com/#!contact/c2q4">Contact</a> page. Voilà! Your medal arrives through the mail.</div><br />
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There are about three weeks left to prepare for this event. Need to increase your mileage or quicken your pace? The time to start is now. I'm registered. I have borrowed an incredible pair of shoes to describe for you soon. But for now, my recent heart attack and I are walking out the door.<br />
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What's stopping YOU?</div>Chrishttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08758969467352230385noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7544826466575718586.post-35359502282809252702013-06-02T08:27:00.001-04:002013-06-04T19:45:49.695-04:00A Dragon's Gift<a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-OW2L2Pgd6QY/UatiV_fuqEI/AAAAAAAAASo/CgfJz7K192A/s1600/12071344-ancient-chinese-dragon-statue-against-blue-sky.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-OW2L2Pgd6QY/UatiV_fuqEI/AAAAAAAAASo/CgfJz7K192A/s320/12071344-ancient-chinese-dragon-statue-against-blue-sky.jpg" width="218" /></a><i>Challenge is a dragon with a gift in its mouth . . . Tame the dragon and the gift is yours. -- Noela Evans</i><br />
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I hate dragons. When I started writing this post, I did not know that 2012 was the Chinese "Year of the Dragon." (You can say THAT again.) Truly, I mean no disrespect to people who believe that dragons are a good thing. But, I <i>hate</i> dragons. The fact is, I've hated dragons since my earliest memory, when the first terrifying encounter happened at about the age of three. I don't know how it found me in my sleep, but I awoke and it was crouching quietly at the foot of the bed, snake-eyes glaring, silvery-green scales reflecting broken rays of moonlight in the dark. Then the darned thing lurched at me, clawing, scraping the skin right off my legs. So it was, with my last post at the end of 2011, when my dragon came back to visit. It stole my pen, it seems, as I found it very difficult to write anything remotely inspiring. But, worse, it managed to <i>steal my shoes</i>.<br />
<br>This dragon was persistent. It stalked me at every turn for over a year, closer to two years, spewing embers on the path beneath my feet. There was constant anxiety related to my tiny little <a href="http://www.run-in-their-shoes.blogspot.com/2011/12/barefoot-running-lesson-1.html">grandson's illness</a>. And, there was guilt, profound guilt, at being located too far from his parents (my son and his wife) to help them in a significant way. Then, my husband underwent an extended hospitalization. We fell on hard times and came treacherously close to losing our home. Also, in November of 2011, my children's father, my first husband of twenty-five years, died suddenly. Aside from my own grief (and yes, people do grieve over former spouses), I felt entirely helpless to comfort my own children as they worked through the immense pain of that tragedy. Eventually, I also began to feel ill, but the source of my discomfort eluded me. And, as often is the case for people, the most miniscule event in comparison to all else was the one that precipitated surrender -- an injury to my left knee. Running, the coping mechanism that works best for me, became impossible when I fell UP a concrete step and popped my knee cap into a place it didn't belong. As I wallowed there on the steps, cradling my painful knee, the dragon snatched the shoes right off my feet.<br />
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Months and months passed. That scaly, overgrown lizard situated itself right in front of me, snorting, snickering, blowing its repulsive breath in my face. It teased me, trophying my tattered shoes just out of my reach. Despite rest, ice, compression and elevation (RICE), despite muscle strengthening designed to re-align the knee cap, it simply didn't heal well enough to get back on the road. I meandered aimlessly and shoeless, burying myself in what I had decided were well-deserved doses of pity and skepticism. Lurking, laughing, the dragon gloated over my pitiful mindset.<br />
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It didn't try to eat me or slay me; no, this dragon was very cunning. Instead, it cast a spell, transforming me into one of its own. Two of my toes started pinching up into sharp points at the center of the nail bed -- like a dragon's claw, it seemed to me. My skin began to turn scaly and coarse. My eyes were so dry, it felt as if the pupils were trying to morph into snake-like vertical slits. I thought I might actually breathe fire from being parched all the time, and I'd gulp water in huge quantities, in futile attempts to quench the heat. I experienced fleeting episodes of pressure in my chest, overwhelming fatigue, tingling in my legs, and a laundry list of other complaints, all too vague in my mind to discuss with my doctor. Besides, how in the world would I ever explain the dragon?<br />
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But, on February 10, 2013, my nemesis grew impatient with my gradual transformation. The dragon drew its sword and stabbed at me, right at the middle of my chest. I resisted, kicking and screaming, flailing at it with my fists, poking at those hideous, glowing snake eyes. I beat the nasty thing into retreat, and when I did, I had managed to survive a real-life "widow-maker" of a heart attack, coupled with a new diagnosis of type II diabetes. (The diabetes, it turns out, was a more formidable opponent than any dragon, and the cause of all those dragon-like symptoms.)<br />
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Now, when one so regularly attracts a dragon's fury and lives to tell the tale, there is cause for self-examination -- lots of it. Which brings me to the belly of this blog; that is, to tell the stories of ordinary people who face adversity with courage and grace. Battling my dragon has forced me to admit that I have never been guilty of handling adversity with grace -- not once, not even for a second. Although I <i>imagine</i> myself being graceful on those occasions, I rarely seem to pull it off. And, that's exactly why I started this blog in the first place. I hoped to observe the courageous examples of others who achieve what I cannot, to learn from them, to honor them, and to attempt to retrace their footsteps. What I have failed to recognize in this effort is that a number of such people in my life, siblings, children, cousins, friends -- people whom I have known and loved for many years, have shoes that are worth borrowing. The dragon has been tamed for now, and as Noela Evans observed, it left behind a gift. The gift is the recognition that it isn't necessary to search across the globe for extraordinary examples of character and principle. Instead, those examples have been with me all along, marked by the shoe prints of people whom I know and love, whose remarkable stories are worth the telling. <br />
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So, as I used to say in the days before the dragon, "Here's to the next mile!" I'll be traveling now, trying out shoes from the dragon's gift. Hmmm...which pair to choose?</div>
Chrishttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08758969467352230385noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7544826466575718586.post-35541403420426026752011-12-23T05:46:00.014-05:002013-06-02T09:58:28.667-04:00Barefoot Running: Lesson #2<div align="justify"><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-oMUuwZcHtvA/TvR9ZihJb_I/AAAAAAAAARw/mCvCj9oJBJk/s1600/bare-feet.jpg"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 170px; FLOAT: left; HEIGHT: 140px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5689310106991816690" border="0" alt="" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-oMUuwZcHtvA/TvR9ZihJb_I/AAAAAAAAARw/mCvCj9oJBJk/s200/bare-feet.jpg" /></a> There is always someone whose feet are sorer than mine.<br /><br />My intention was to write about a few more challenges that the year presented me, but as other barefoot runners posted comments related to <a href="http://www.run-in-their-shoes.blogspot.com/2011/12/barefoot-running-lesson-1.html">Colton's story</a>, I was reminded, once again, that my road is not nearly as difficult to travel as that of many others. I was forced to consider something I witnessed many years ago, something so extraordinary that it has permanently altered my perspective.<br /><br /><strong>Lesson #2: The Rock Climber</strong><br /><br />It was a gorgeous summer morning in the year 2000 at Cooper's Rock State Park in West Virginia. I had driven there for respite during a difficult time, and the prescription worked wonders. The mountain vistas were breathtaking. The air was filled with a mixture of scents: the moist floor of ancient woodlands, the mild fragrance of wild rhododendrons in bloom, and the fresh breeze that skimmed across the hilltops. As I walked down a path, leaves from the canopy of trees overhead fluttered and wriggled, allowing the sunlight to dance in random patterns in front of my feet.<br /><br />Ahead, I could hear voices, and as I rounded a curve, a group of people were standing at the base of a rock face. The rock jutted straight up out of the ground, as sharp and as tall as if it were a skyscraper. A man was clinging to this rough wall, perhaps thirty feet off the ground. The group below shouted, "Move your right foot up and over! One more step! Lift your left hand up! REACH UP!" The man struggled, trembling as he followed the instructions of his comrades. I stood mesmerized, holding my breath, my eyes glued to his every move.<br /><br />Just as I was wondering why in the world they weren't all simply keeping <i>quiet</i>, I realized that the climber had <i>no sight</i>. Slowly, ever so slowly he crept, climbing without the benefit of seeing where he was or where he had to go, absent any view of his next foothold. It was excruciating to observe. On the one hand, I wanted to leave before the worst imaginable thing happened; on the other hand, I was transfixed, paralyzed -- stricken at the depth of his courage and the profound level of trust he placed in his companions. With a final reach at the top of the rock face, a fellow climber stepped forward to pull the man to safety. The group at the bottom of the rock applauded, shouting in celebration. However, I did <em>not</em> shout or applaud. Instead, I turned to go, grateful the man was uninjured, as I tried to recall how to breathe.<br /><br />The impact of this experience can not be overstated for me. As a result, just as I asked myself when I turned to leave the climber and his friends, my mind frequently interjects the question, "So, what's my problem?" It happens any time I lose my shoes or the trail is rocky: I am reminded that somebody's feet are sorer than mine. My mind's eye sees the climber, sees what he could not. Then, I whisper to myself, "One more step. REACH UP!"<br /><br />I tell this story because after reviewing the earlier comments, I simply didn't have the heart to describe my own challenges. My feet are just not that sore. But, I think Anna, Trish and DIcouponqueen could use some new shoes. Their trails are hard and their soles are worn.<br /><br />At about 11:00 last night, I used the random number generator at <a href="http://www.random.org/">random.org</a> to select the winning comment from a field of three who left their email addresses. The winning number was 3! DIcouponqueen, you are the winner of the $100.00 Visa gift card! Congratulations! I hope the gift will lighten your step as you move forward into your challenge. Think of the sightless man. Trust yourself and those who love you. Go one more step!<br /><br />As for Anna and Trish -- it seems to me that both of you could use a little perk. You'll each receive $50.00 gift cards for making the time and effort to share your struggles here. It sounds to me as if some new shoes would help to soothe your bare feet as you meet the challenges ahead! Remember the climber. Keep reaching up!<br /><br />Thanks to each of the commenters for helping me honor baby Colton's birthday, his precious life, and his determination to walk the path that is laid before him. His little shoes are those of courage. I think I'll be borrowing them soon.<br /><br />Here's to the next mile!</div>Chrishttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08758969467352230385noreply@blogger.com9tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7544826466575718586.post-4277592953093806602011-12-08T06:19:00.018-05:002011-12-10T07:13:24.225-05:00Barefoot Running: Lesson #1<div align="justify">You could say I've been running barefoot.</div><br /><div align="justify">The last time I borrowed a pair of shoes was in December of 2010. Those shoes of patience slogged across the finish line for an Arthritis Foundation <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_0" class="blsp-spelling-error">Jingle Bell</span> Run in honor of Jack W. I recall being elated that I was NOT the last person in my <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_1" class="blsp-spelling-error">age group</span> to cross the finish line.</div><br /><div align="justify">Then came The Bad Stuff. It's never the "good" stuff that causes us to pause and reassess. I mean, does anybody ever get a nice raise, or achieve a 4.0 in school, or publish a book and react by thinking, "Now, it's time for me to go on sabbatical . . . it's time to examine my shortcomings and reassess"? Oh, perhaps some incredibly successful, goal-oriented folks who aspire to win friends and influence people do this. Mostly, though, The Good Stuff propels us forward, keeps us energized, and we whisper our gratitude into the air, running in cushioned shoes toward the next good thing.</div><br /><div align="justify">But, The Bad Stuff mercilessly knocks the shoes right off our feet. We run barefoot, scratched and raw, until the pain of it brings us to our knees. The Bad Stuff forces us to look inward, is relentless in its demand that we search for meaning, insists that we understand the lesson in every trial. For my own part, 2011 was littered with lessons, and it seems fitting to close out the year by sharing those lessons with you.</div><br /><div align="justify"><strong>Lesson #1: <a href=http://www.thecoltoncourant.blogspot.com>Colton</a></strong></div><br /><p align="center"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 320px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 240px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5683694167120743842" border="0" alt="" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-5rHKIjdtTtY/TuCJu0MxDaI/AAAAAAAAARM/qNi--9wnZZg/s320/Colton2" /></p><br /><div align="justify">Few things are more heart-wrenching than having a child with serious medical problems. I am confident of this. I have experienced it. Yet, it is even more difficult to watch your own child agonize over <em>his or her</em> child. And, it was during such a time late last year that something jerked this blog's entire collection of borrowed shoes right out from under me. </div><br /><div align="justify">Little Baby Colton, a new grandson, was born at the end of last December. He was precious, tiny, helpless -- and I was so fortunate to have arrived just in time to hear his first little cries. Yet, it was only a short while into his fragile little life that signs of trouble emerged. He would spend the next forty days moving in and out of intensive and critical care units. He was subjected to open-heart surgery when he was less than four weeks old. </div><br /><div align="justify">Time and time again, I'd see the agony in the eyes of my courageous son and his wife. I could hear it in their voices. Time and time again, Colton would teeter on the edge, I'd ask myself how much agony was enough, and his Momma and Daddy urged and cooed and caressed him back to safety.</div><br /><div align="justify">But, I saw something else during those weeks that I am unable to explain. I saw this teeny little baby, whose anatomy simply did not support survival -- do exactly that. I recall being mesmerized as I observed what was clearly, plainly, his unadorned will to LIVE. But, there was something more. At times, it seemed, when he surely was exhausted, when even the will of a grown and burly man might have failed, something indescribable happened. It was an underlying force, something even more fundamental than instinct. A strange energy was driving this baby, pushing him, sustaining him. It defied human understanding or explanation. It was, perhaps ... spiritual. </div><br /><div align="justify">Therein lies the lesson. Over my lifetime, after seeing a sizable portion of The Bad Stuff happening to people, I'd developed what I thought were very practical ideas, carefully crafted opinions, about what is merciful and what is not, about when life has meaning and when it is devoid of meaning. Not only have I had to rethink all those ideas, but I've had to discard most of them. Truth is, life itself has the power to determine its destiny. Life warrants no interference, life needs no other wisdom. </div><br /><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Cw2yMVQ3H_o/TuNL7g64ZUI/AAAAAAAAARY/-uix-CxONmk/s1600/colton1211.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 275px; height: 275px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Cw2yMVQ3H_o/TuNL7g64ZUI/AAAAAAAAARY/-uix-CxONmk/s320/colton1211.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5684470640492963138" /></a><br /><div align="justify">Soon, Colton will be one year old. His little chuckles of delight and loving manner have been the most marvelous gifts. His birthday will be a joyous day! And, in honor of that remarkable milestone, I want to celebrate with a random bloggy giveaway. The prize? A $100 Visa giftcard! Here are the rules.</div><br /><div align="justify">1. You must write a comment on this blog or one of the coming "Barefoot Running" blogs. Your comment is your entry.</div><br /><div align="justify">2. The comment must be about you or someone you know who's running barefoot (facing a challenge). Use first names only, please.</div><br /><div align="justify">3. The comment must explain the lesson you've learned while running barefoot.</div><br /><div align="justify">4. The comment must contain your email, so that I can contact you if you are the winner of the giveaway.</div><br /><div align="justify">5. Each entry will be assigned a number. Random selection from this pool of numbers will occur on December 22--just in time for Christmas!</div><br /><div align="justify">I hope to find lots of comments!</div><br /><div align="justify">Until next year, I'll be posting about barefoot running lessons, looking for shoes to borrow -- and thinking about the next mile.</div>Chrishttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08758969467352230385noreply@blogger.com11tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7544826466575718586.post-44446483699099508782010-12-03T05:54:00.011-05:002010-12-03T12:08:44.486-05:00Shoes of Patience -- Jack W.<div align="justify"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ei_eLZ7g61M/TPj8mDSFRNI/AAAAAAAAAQs/EQPPVMD6KMg/s1600/AF.JPG"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 65px; FLOAT: right; HEIGHT: 61px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5546460671753143506" border="0" alt="" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ei_eLZ7g61M/TPj8mDSFRNI/AAAAAAAAAQs/EQPPVMD6KMg/s320/AF.JPG" /></a>It always has been the case in my life that when good fortune takes aim, it materializes in the form of a person. So it is with Jack W., who has been a mentor and co-worker to me for nearly eight years. His days revolve around the efficient and expert management of rugged stuff: machinery, grime, and sweat -- lots of sweat. It is in this industrial landscape of a "man's world" -- a harsh backdrop of enormous steel tanks and grease and pipes and valves -- where Jack has taught me to hold my own. While I only can guess at the true extent of patience he has expended in that eight-year-long process, I know the depth of my gratitude for it.</div><br /><div align="justify">Jack is devoted to his family, his job, golf, and the Baltimore Ravens. He battles arthritis in his knees, his back, and a shoulder; yet, regardless of the very physical demands of his work, he perseveres through pain and discomfort with a perpetual sense of humor and a precise measure of no-nonsense professionalism. As co-workers, we've shared successes and disappointments; we've laughed with and at each other; we've lamented to and about each other; but, in good times and bad, Jack's patient support has not failed during my learning process.</div><br /><div align="justify">To Jack W., my mentor and friend: tomorrow I will travel three miles in support of finding a cure for arthritis. If you don't mind, I'd like to borrow your shoes while I run. I know they will not fit my feet, because they already overflow with patience and perseverance. But, I will carry them with me. With every stride from beginning to end, they will remind me to focus on your example, and to hope for relief in our lifetimes -- relief that will allow you to climb the hill at work with pain-free knees, to gather up your grandchildren with a pain-free back, and to swing a golf club with a pain-free shoulder.</div><br /><div align="justify">Here's to the next mile!</div><br /><div align="justify">Oh, and Jack ... one more thing ... Go, STEELERS!</div><br /><p align="center"><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ei_eLZ7g61M/TPj7zUVekhI/AAAAAAAAAQk/oqrc9w-8648/s1600/steelers.bmp"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 76px; HEIGHT: 78px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5546459800157458962" border="0" alt="" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ei_eLZ7g61M/TPj7zUVekhI/AAAAAAAAAQk/oqrc9w-8648/s200/steelers.bmp" /></a></p>Chrishttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08758969467352230385noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7544826466575718586.post-85591056092529749492010-11-12T17:02:00.008-05:002010-12-03T09:41:56.680-05:00These Shoes Are Blue!<div align="justify"><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ei_eLZ7g61M/TNvGffWLmnI/AAAAAAAAAP4/AjHtjS0RyHA/s1600/AF.JPG"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 48px; FLOAT: left; HEIGHT: 48px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5538238411074935410" border="0" alt="" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ei_eLZ7g61M/TNvGffWLmnI/AAAAAAAAAP4/AjHtjS0RyHA/s200/AF.JPG" /></a>According to the Arthritis Foundation, <a href="http://www.cdc.gov/arthritis/data_statistics/faqs/case_definition.htm#4">the Center for Disease Control (CDC)</a> estimates that 46.4 <em>million </em>Americans suffer from some form of doctor-diagnosed arthritis. In 2003-2005, that meant that 21.6% of American adults had doctor-diagnosed arthritis. With an aging population, the numbers are expected only to increase. </div><br /><div align="justify">It's a relentless, miserable ache in the shoulder that keeps a grandfather from playing baseball with his grandson. It's a merciless pain in the fingers that keep your elderly neighbor from being able to open medication bottles, or even grasp a spoon tightly. It becomes disabling, and it's a devastating disease for families who have children that are diagnosed with arthritis, forever altering the manner in which those children experience life.</div><br /><div align="justify">Slip on your favorite shoes and participate in a Jingle Bell Run or Walk in your area, or donate today to support finding improved treatments . . . yes, even a cure for arthritis. After all, you could be one of the next patients in that 21.6% of Americans who are diagnosed with the disease.</div><p align="center"><a href="http://www.kintera.org/site/pp.asp?c=pkI2KfMUItF&b=3751701"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 110px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 80px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5538789565805979538" border="0" alt="" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ei_eLZ7g61M/TN27w6uBZ5I/AAAAAAAAAQQ/NyINxF_hcuI/s320/jbr-small-logo.jpg" /></a></p><div align="justify">Just click on the symbol to donate!</div><br /><div align="justify">I'll be looking for some worthy shoes to borrow for this run, so don't forget to leave a comment about someone you know who suffers from arthritis. I'll write a tribute, take his or her name with me across the finish line, and make a donation in that person's honor.</div><br /><div align="justify">Here's to the next mile!</div>Chrishttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08758969467352230385noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7544826466575718586.post-59387437543478830582010-10-19T06:05:00.020-04:002010-12-03T09:40:24.574-05:00Weapons In the Fight Against Breast Cancer<div align="justify"><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_ei_eLZ7g61M/TL6qCbMR7NI/AAAAAAAAAPI/HIdacT-Zemo/s1600/pink-ribbon.jpg"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 91px; FLOAT: left; HEIGHT: 98px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5530044351093271762" border="0" alt="" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_ei_eLZ7g61M/TL6qCbMR7NI/AAAAAAAAAPI/HIdacT-Zemo/s200/pink-ribbon.jpg" /></a>While researching the material for many of these tributes, I've discovered a multitude of useful weapons in the fight against breast cancer, either for patients or for those who wish to donate to end the war. So, before moving forward to the next worthy cause, I wanted to list those resources in a single post.<br /><br /><strong>Prevention, Early Detection, and Treatment </strong></div><div align="justify"><strong><br /></strong>Prevention and early detection cannot be overemphasized. GET A MAMMOGRAM. The <a href="http://www.cancer.org/docroot/CRI/content/CRI_2_6X_Mammography_and_other_Breast_Imaging_Procedures_5.asp">American Cancer Society</a> (<span id="SPELLING_ERROR_0" class="blsp-spelling-error">ACS</span>) recommends that women age 40 and older should have a screening mammogram every year, and should continue to do so for as long as they are in good health. Click <a href="http://www.cancer.org/Healthy/FindCancerEarly/ExamandTestDescriptions/MammogramsandOtherBreastImagingProcedures/mammograms-and-other-breast-imaging-procedures-what-is-mammogram">here</a> to begin learning about the procedure and the important role mammograms play in the early detection of breast cancer.<br /><br />If mammogram costs are a hindrance to you, call your local health department, or the American Cancer Society at 1-800-227-2345 for information about facilities in your area that perform the tests at low or no cost. The National Breast and Cervical Cancer Early Detection Program (<span id="SPELLING_ERROR_1" class="blsp-spelling-error">NBCCEDP</span>) also provides breast and cervical cancer early detection testing to women without health insurance for free or at very little cost. To learn more about this program, please contact the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) at 1-800-CDC INFO (1-800-232-4636) or visit their Web site at <a href="http://www.cdc.gov/cancer">www.cdc.gov/cancer</a>. </div><br /><div align="justify"></div><div align="justify">To find out how to perform a breast self-exam (<span id="SPELLING_ERROR_2" class="blsp-spelling-error">BSE</span>), go to <a href="http://www.komen.org/"><span id="SPELLING_ERROR_3" class="blsp-spelling-error">Komen</span> for the Cure</a>. Or, try out <a href="http://www.webmd.com/breast-cancer/guide/breast-self-exam"><span id="SPELLING_ERROR_4" class="blsp-spelling-error">WebMD</span></a> or <a href="http://cancer.about.com/od/breastcancer/ht/breastselfexam.htm">About.Com</a>. <a href="http://www.cancer.org/docroot/cri/content/cri_2_6x_how_to_perform_a_breast_self_exam_5.asp">The American Cancer Society</a> also offers excellent guidance, as does <a href="http://www.breastcancer.org/symptoms/testing/types/self_exam/bse_steps.jsp?gclid=CL3hyfnmk6ICFQyjiQod7hvkbg"><span id="SPELLING_ERROR_5" class="blsp-spelling-error">BreastCancer</span>.Org</a>. One last site is worthy of mention because it also offers free shower card reminders. Go to <a href="http://www.healthywomen.org/content/publication/breast-self-exam-shower-card"><span id="SPELLING_ERROR_6" class="blsp-spelling-error">HealthyWomen</span></a> and download your free card, which was published in April of 2008 by the National Women's health Resource Center, Inc. Or, click on the image below for a larger version, print it out, stash it in a <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_7" class="blsp-spelling-error">ziplock</span> bag, and hang it in the shower. </div><br /><div align="center"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ei_eLZ7g61M/TBD4n0vy56I/AAAAAAAAALI/pOhU_6QifkQ/s1600/Self-Exam+Shower+Card.JPG"><img style="WIDTH: 235px; HEIGHT: 367px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5481154109567592354" border="0" alt="" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ei_eLZ7g61M/TBD4n0vy56I/AAAAAAAAALI/pOhU_6QifkQ/s200/Self-Exam+Shower+Card.JPG" /></a></div><br /><p align="justify">But, hey, enough of that serious stuff. <a href="http://www.checkyourboobies.org/">Check Your Boobies</a>! No kidding -- that's the name of the organization, whose mission is to ". . . educate women about breast health in a frank, fun, and fear-free manner. [They] are dedicated to the prevention and early detection of Breast Cancer." And, if you're tired of Tupperware or Pampered Chef parties, make sure to take note of the resources and testimonials on this site for planning your very own "CYB Party."<br /><br /><strong>Useful Services</strong></p><p align="justify">For women who are undergoing treatment for breast cancer, climbing out of bed in the morning can be nearly impossible, let alone trying to clean house. But, <a href="http://www.cleaningforareason.com/">Cleaning for a Reason</a> can help with that chore. Go to the site and apply!<br /><br /><strong>Donations</strong></p><p align="justify">For donors, nearly any of the sites listed above are looking for research funding. But, here's an easy one! </p><div align="justify"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ei_eLZ7g61M/TAcLz9ugQWI/AAAAAAAAAIo/SALKsDdkU_A/s1600/button-home-bcs-right-2_hover.jpg"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 200px; FLOAT: left; HEIGHT: 60px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5478360459090346338" border="0" alt="" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ei_eLZ7g61M/TAcLz9ugQWI/AAAAAAAAAIo/SALKsDdkU_A/s200/button-home-bcs-right-2_hover.jpg" /></a>Visit <a href="http://www.thebreastcancersite.com/clickToGive/home.faces?siteId=2">The Breast Cancer Site</a>. On the first page, a button will appear that looks like the one to the left. Click on it. That's all there is to it! Each time the button is clicked, advertisements from site sponsors are displayed. All of the money from these advertisers goes to the site's charity partners, who fund programs to provide mammograms to women in need. How easy is that?</div><div align="justify"><br />For all you sporty types, one of the most creative fund raising efforts I've seen is sponsored by <a href="http://mlb.mlb.com/mlb/official_info/stand_up_to_cancer/stadiums.jsp">Major League Baseball Stands Up to Cancer!</a> Go to the site, make a $5 donation, and own a virtual piece of your favorite team's stadium. Donations fund research in the fight against cancer! (Thanks to my dear daughter-in-law, Erin, a die-hard Pirates fan, for sending this one and Cleaning for a Reason!)</div><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ei_eLZ7g61M/TL8KCvoh_iI/AAAAAAAAAPQ/4eONGxDDha0/s1600/50236_133020666721111_1432_n.jpg"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 68px; FLOAT: right; HEIGHT: 115px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5530149909696740898" border="0" alt="" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ei_eLZ7g61M/TL8KCvoh_iI/AAAAAAAAAPQ/4eONGxDDha0/s200/50236_133020666721111_1432_n.jpg" /></a><br /><div align="justify">If none of these donating strategies appeals to you, have some chocolate! Purchase a bag of Pepperidge Farm® Milano® cookies, and they'll donate 50¢ to Susan G. Komen for the Cure® (up to $50,000).</div><br /><div align="justify">Breast cancer ... every 69 seconds a woman dies from it. Together, we can fight this devil by using the right weapons! Protect yourself through early detection, donate to research -- go the distance to find the cure!</div><br /><div align="justify">Here's to the next mile!</div>Chrishttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08758969467352230385noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7544826466575718586.post-91128103623799280952010-10-17T09:52:00.022-04:002010-10-20T08:43:39.065-04:00Shoes Filled With Dollars -- Jill Haines<div align="justify"></div><br /><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ei_eLZ7g61M/TLsE4WqPP5I/AAAAAAAAAO4/MjfqT7X3R0I/s1600/raceforthecure.JPG"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 320px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 257px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5529018333729341330" border="0" alt="" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ei_eLZ7g61M/TLsE4WqPP5I/AAAAAAAAAO4/MjfqT7X3R0I/s320/raceforthecure.JPG" /></a><br /><div align="justify">When I began to write this series of tributes to breast cancer patients and survivors, I was determined to avoid pleading with readers to make donations to <em>anything</em>. The purpose of my effort, after all, is to highlight the extraordinary characters of regular people who graciously and tenaciously battle the demons of disease and misfortune. Instead, I had planned to set an example by making donations of my own to each featured cause, and hoped that others would follow suit.</div><br /><div align="justify">But, today, I have changed my mind. I write to do that very thing -- to ask for money for breast cancer research. What brought about this change of focus? Yesterday, in Virginia Beach, Virginia, I saw the faces of all those whose names are listed on this <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_0" class="blsp-spelling-error"><span id="SPELLING_ERROR_0" class="blsp-spelling-error">blog's</span></span> "wall of honor." It was unmistakable -- their fear and determination, their agonies, hopes, and dreams, all mirrored in the faces of thousands of men and women, some survivors, some friends, and some family members of those who suffer from or have succumbed to breast cancer. During yesterday's Race for the Cure, a part of this country's eastern seaboard was awash in symbols of pink -- pink shoes, pink hats, pink gloves, pink banners -- all signals that the fight continues and a cure surely is on the horizon.</div><br /><div align="justify">As I ran, I quietly recited the list that's been building here for many months: Emily Jean Thorn, Linda Ramsey Beam, Linda Jessee Mills, Libby <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_1" class="blsp-spelling-error"><span id="SPELLING_ERROR_1" class="blsp-spelling-error">Holter</span></span>, <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_2" class="blsp-spelling-error"><span id="SPELLING_ERROR_2" class="blsp-spelling-error">Kaira</span></span> W., Lynda Boyd, Vanny Mam Cain, Sue <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_3" class="blsp-spelling-error"><span id="SPELLING_ERROR_3" class="blsp-spelling-error">Michener</span></span>, Betty <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_4" class="blsp-spelling-error"><span id="SPELLING_ERROR_4" class="blsp-spelling-error">Godby</span></span>, Tricia <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_5" class="blsp-spelling-error"><span id="SPELLING_ERROR_5" class="blsp-spelling-error">Keegan</span></span>, Jennifer S., and Jill <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_6" class="blsp-spelling-error"><span id="SPELLING_ERROR_6" class="blsp-spelling-error">Haines</span></span>. And, it was that last name -- Jill <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_7" class="blsp-spelling-error"><span id="SPELLING_ERROR_7" class="blsp-spelling-error">Haines</span></span> -- one of twelve companions to thousands of other names printed on people's backs, that changed my mind.</div><br /><div align="justify">Some time ago, Jennifer S., who is herself a survivor of breast cancer, requested a tribute in memory of her dear friend, Jill <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_8" class="blsp-spelling-error"><span id="SPELLING_ERROR_8" class="blsp-spelling-error">Haines</span></span>. Of Jill, Jennifer remarks, "Jill is an 11 year Stage IV survivor. As the years have gone by and the treatments have changed, she has shown amazing resilience in dealing with the side effects of the various <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_9" class="blsp-spelling-error"><span id="SPELLING_ERROR_9" class="blsp-spelling-error">chemos</span></span> while living her life with incredible enthusiasm." Jennifer's tribute to Jill continues to reflect her deep admiration for her friend.</div><br /><blockquote><div align="justify">I am asking that you read her story and imagine that her story could be that of your mothers, daughters, sisters, or that of yourselves. Imagine her passion for this life and her vision of a world without breast cancer for all of you. I am asking that you take the time to read this, and pass it on to everyone in your mailbox and pass it on to your school or church group. I am asking that you take the time to confirm her belief in the power of one dollar. . . . </div><br /><div align="justify">Recently, Jill and I had a conversation about the power of one dollar in regards to funding research. Jill is alive today because of the dollars that were donated for breast cancer research over the last 25 years. She is currently on a drug that was not available just a few years ago. However, she is running out of options, and her life, like so many others, depends on the continued funding of research for breast cancer. The drug that may save her life might be right around the corner.</div><br /><div align="justify">As with most of us as we face our mortality, Jill is wanting to make an impact on this world before she leaves it. Its been a rough couple of months for her and she wants to do something that will leave a big footprint on this earth, with her name on it. Great minds think alike, because last year, when I was training for the Breast Cancer 3 Day, I constantly thought about the impact I could have, if I could just get one dollar from all the people driving and walking by.</div></blockquote><div align="justify">It is no wonder that Jill was so compelled to promote funding for cancer research, even as she struggled through years of chemotherapy for her own illness. Jill lost many loved ones to cancer, and wrote about those experiences on the <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_10" class="blsp-spelling-error"><span id="SPELLING_ERROR_10" class="blsp-spelling-error">Komen</span></span> website. </div><blockquote><p align="justify">I have lost my surgeon to cancer and many friends. Also my parents. I turned to <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_11" class="blsp-spelling-error"><span id="SPELLING_ERROR_11" class="blsp-spelling-error">Komen</span></span> 3 years ago because I lived the dream of hope and wanted to share. The first year is definitely the hardest, because of all the emotions that come into play and life style changes. Year number 2 is one of uncertainty. Every cancer survivor wants that year number 5. The magic number. Why do we count? Are we counting down the days, or counting the days we are alive. Before Cancer days didn't matter.</p></blockquote><div align="justify">Sadly, Jill's days counted down, and on September 18, 2009, she was stolen from friends and family by this ferocious disease. But, her friend, Jennifer, continues to promote Jill's impassioned plea. What if everyone donated just one dollar to research for finding a cure for breast cancer? What if it was YOUR dollar that found the cure? What if it was YOUR dollar that saved <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_12" class="blsp-spelling-error"><span id="SPELLING_ERROR_12" class="blsp-spelling-error">someone's</span></span> mother, sister, or daughter?</div><br /><div align="justify">To Jill <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_13" class="blsp-spelling-error"><span id="SPELLING_ERROR_13" class="blsp-spelling-error">Haines</span></span>, whose shoes I borrowed yesterday to run The Race for the Cure: they lifted me beyond a sore ankle and an aching knee. When discomfort challenged me, or self-doubt reared its ugly head, your shoes propelled me forward, and I considered the vastly greater discomfort of those twelve names that were listed on the back of my shirt. Even though it's likely we will have the distinction of being the very last runner to cross the finish line, still we made it, and I was so proud to take all of you with me.</div><br /><div align="justify">But, one last race-related task needed attention. I needed to return Jill's shoes with appropriate gratitude. So, this morning, Jill's shoes are full of dollars in the form of a $100 donation to <a href="http://www.komen.org/"><span id="SPELLING_ERROR_14" class="blsp-spelling-error"><span id="SPELLING_ERROR_14" class="blsp-spelling-error">Komen</span></span></a> in the fight against breast cancer.</div><br /><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_ei_eLZ7g61M/TLryMP1SmhI/AAAAAAAAAOo/TLENb9frdBM/s1600/komendonation.JPG"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 312px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 398px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5528997784773106194" border="0" alt="" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_ei_eLZ7g61M/TLryMP1SmhI/AAAAAAAAAOo/TLENb9frdBM/s400/komendonation.JPG" /></a><br /><div align="justify">Donate, donate, donate -- $1, $5, $10 -- it doesn't matter. Just click <a href="http://ww5.komen.org/donate/donate.html">here</a>. Cushion the way with dollars for all those who must travel a path fraught with breast cancer. The step you take by donating could be the one that finishes the race to find a cure!</div><br /><div align="justify">To Emily Jean Thorn, Linda Ramsey Beam, Linda Jessee Mills, Libby <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_15" class="blsp-spelling-error"><span id="SPELLING_ERROR_15" class="blsp-spelling-error">Holter</span></span>, <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_16" class="blsp-spelling-error"><span id="SPELLING_ERROR_16" class="blsp-spelling-error">Kaira</span></span> W., Lynda Boyd, Vanny Mam Cain, Sue <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_17" class="blsp-spelling-error"><span id="SPELLING_ERROR_17" class="blsp-spelling-error">Michener</span></span>, Tricia <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_18" class="blsp-spelling-error"><span id="SPELLING_ERROR_18" class="blsp-spelling-error">Keegan</span></span>, Jennifer S., Betty <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_19" class="blsp-spelling-error"><span id="SPELLING_ERROR_19" class="blsp-spelling-error">Godby</span></span>, and Jill <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_20" class="blsp-spelling-error"><span id="SPELLING_ERROR_20" class="blsp-spelling-error">Haines</span></span>, thank you all so much for your inspiration and encouragement along the way. I will never forget you!</div><br /><div align="justify">Here's to the next mile!</div>Chrishttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08758969467352230385noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7544826466575718586.post-71242715152552132192010-10-17T06:20:00.011-04:002010-10-17T19:17:46.437-04:00Giveaway Winner!<div align="justify">Congratulations to Diane, who contributed information for the story of <a href="http://run-in-their-shoes.blogspot.com/2010/06/fortitude-as-known-by-kaira-w.html">Kaira W.'s</a> fortitude, and the importance of breast self-examination.<br /><br />Today, Diane, you are IN THE PINK as the winner of official Komen merchandise, a New Balance sackpack!<br /> <br /><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ei_eLZ7g61M/TLsAWD3DKNI/AAAAAAAAAOw/ZS5t-Us3PNw/s1600/New+Balance+Foldable+SackPack2.jpg"></div><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 189px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 177px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5529013346520738002" border="0" alt="" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ei_eLZ7g61M/TLsAWD3DKNI/AAAAAAAAAOw/ZS5t-Us3PNw/s320/New+Balance+Foldable+SackPack2.jpg" /></a> I'll be contacting you to obtain your shipping information.<br /><br />Thanks for being such an important part of this effort!Chrishttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08758969467352230385noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7544826466575718586.post-81959702371468409712010-07-25T06:35:00.004-04:002010-07-25T07:58:53.662-04:00Courage -- Courtesy of Tricia Keegan<div align="justify"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ei_eLZ7g61M/TEwS5JAZaKI/AAAAAAAAAOI/x0BMQlSbvfI/s1600/pink-ribbon.jpg"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 99px; FLOAT: left; HEIGHT: 118px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5497790017991960738" border="0" alt="" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ei_eLZ7g61M/TEwS5JAZaKI/AAAAAAAAAOI/x0BMQlSbvfI/s200/pink-ribbon.jpg" /></a>I've been reluctant to assign shoes of courage to one particular person in this series of tributes, because each of the breast cancer patients or survivors named here marches foward in those shoes every moment of their lives.<br /><br />But, all you have to do is take one look into her electric blue eyes, and you know Tricia <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_0" class="blsp-spelling-error">Keegan</span> is special from top to bottom. Tricia, from the east coast of Ireland, wears shoes that exemplify the definition of courage. She is a master at transforming fear into determination and doing what must be done, even when it is difficult.<br /><br />Tricia was diagnosed at age 46 with Invasive <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_1" class="blsp-spelling-error">Ductal</span> Carcinoma (<span id="SPELLING_ERROR_2" class="blsp-spelling-error">IDC</span>), an aggressive form of breast cancer. Yet, she has endured surgery, radiation treatments, chemotherapy, and ongoing treatment. That courage and endurance has paid out well, and recently Tricia celebrated her fifth year as a breast cancer survivor!<br /><br />Tricia's life is full with her supportive husband, two grown daughters and a house full of beloved cats; yet, she never fails to offer support to those who share her cancer experience. The message boards on the <a href="http://www.komen.org/"><span id="SPELLING_ERROR_3" class="blsp-spelling-error">Komen</span></a> website are full of Tricia's knowledgeable and compassionate responses to questions or concerns expressed by members of her breast cancer family. She notes, "I'm a strong advocate for educating people on their diagnosis, and do voluntary counselling at our local cancer wellness centre along with moderating a cancer support site." Then Tricia adds, "While I never would have asked for this disease, it's brought some amazing people into my life...." What Tricia doesn't seem to recognize, though, is how amazing <em>she</em> is.<br /><br />For Tricia <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_4" class="blsp-spelling-error">Keegan</span>, who is quick to point out the attributes of others and slow to recognize her own: tomorrow, I'd like to borrow your shoes. I know they will not fit my feet, as they are packed with courage already. But, I will carry them with me as I run, and when fear of difficulty or distance creeps into my mind, I will think of your extraordinary example, and transform those doubts into determination.<br /><br />For you, Tricia . . . here's to the next mile!</div>Chrishttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08758969467352230385noreply@blogger.com11tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7544826466575718586.post-33137678236278178902010-07-12T21:15:00.013-04:002010-07-13T13:08:52.112-04:00Mile Marker: The Big 3.1!<div align="justify"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ei_eLZ7g61M/TDxvh4kfhpI/AAAAAAAAAOA/F3JU4b1dc8o/s1600/pinkshoes.jpg"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 65px; FLOAT: left; HEIGHT: 58px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5493388273396975250" border="0" alt="" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ei_eLZ7g61M/TDxvh4kfhpI/AAAAAAAAAOA/F3JU4b1dc8o/s200/pinkshoes.jpg" /></a> Watch out, here I come! It happened today . . . the BIG one! No, not the big one I'd been worried about since heart surgery three years ago. It was the big 3.1 mile run -- a 5K! <a href="http://run-in-their-shoes.blogspot.com/2010/07/legacy-of-sue-michener.html">With help from Sue Michener's winged shoes</a>, I smiled at every footstep for <em>three point one miles</em>!</div> <br /><div align="justify">Now, lest this accomplishment conjures images of human legs moving speedily forward with smooth, long strides, let me assure you, that is not the case. I . . . slogjog. That is to say, I jog very slowly. But, today, I slogjogged the entire distance! I see a <a href="http://www.komen.org">Komen Race for the Cure</a> in my future!</div><br /><div align="left"><iframe src="http://js.mapmyfitness.com/embed/blogview.html?r=a54ddf5123ef5458311171aaa52f40f4&u=e&t=run" height="350px" width="400px"><a href="http://www.mapmyrun.com/run/united-states/va/cp/669127877241631545">3.1 Mile Run/Warm Up</a><br/><a href="http://www.mapmyrun.com/find-run/united-states/va/cp">Find more Runs in Cp, Virginia</a></iframe></div><br />And that's all I have to say about THAT!<br /><br />Here's to the next mile!Chrishttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08758969467352230385noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7544826466575718586.post-39059432933929761842010-07-12T20:48:00.013-04:002010-10-20T08:04:02.701-04:00The Luck of Betty Godby<div align="justify"><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ei_eLZ7g61M/TL2hj6W_BpI/AAAAAAAAAPA/jZci7BbSRgI/s1600/pink-ribbon.jpg"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 103px; FLOAT: right; HEIGHT: 128px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5529753555813992082" border="0" alt="" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ei_eLZ7g61M/TL2hj6W_BpI/AAAAAAAAAPA/jZci7BbSRgI/s320/pink-ribbon.jpg" /></a>If ever there was a lesson in the value of early detection, it belongs to Betty Godby, who walks about in some very lucky shoes. Betty, whose cancer was discovered during a mammogram, is a co-worker of mine, and for my part, a friend. Like so many of my co-workers, she balances the many demands and deadlines of her job with the responsibilities of a family, including two children. On every occasion that I have needed to ask Betty for assistance, she has responded with unfailing patience.<br /><br />Many tributes appear here in honor of brave and selfless individuals, but when I heard that Betty had been diagnosed with breast cancer, I was, to put it plainly, heartsick. Her tribute is the first I've written about someone I know personally with the disease.<br /><br />Can you imagine finding out you have breast cancer, and calling yourself "lucky"? That's how Betty sees it.<br /><br /></div><blockquote><p align="justify">I am really and truly very lucky for the type of breast cancer I have. It is called DCIS (Ductal Carcinoma In Situ), which is a very common type of breast cancer and is very treatable and curable . . . not that that takes away from the devastation of having breast cancer, but I could be in a lot worse shape, and there are people out there that are in a worse case then me.<br /><br />My cancer is a stage zero which is really good; the doctor told me if I was going to get breast cancer that this is the type that you would want. So I am very thankful for the condition that I am in....</p></blockquote><div align="justify">Betty had a double lumpectomy on June 21st, 2010, to remove two 2mm tumors and seven lymphoid on the right side, and a third tumor on the left side. Later in the summer, she had a second surgery to remove additional suspicious-looking tissue. Yet, her optimism remains intact, and she has determined that "this is not going to beat me!!"<br /><br />So, to Betty Godby, whose shoes are lined with good luck: tomorrow, I will borrow them for just a little while. With each stride of the run, I will be grateful for your good fortune, and hope that every stage of your breast cancer journey is paved with zeros!<br /><br />Here's to the next mile!</div>Chrishttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08758969467352230385noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7544826466575718586.post-57298173052913131532010-07-11T05:43:00.019-04:002010-07-13T08:28:34.050-04:00The Legacy of Sue Michener<div align="justify"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ei_eLZ7g61M/TDm6lXYHEpI/AAAAAAAAAN4/S-gJWMoaDQM/s1600/pink-ribbon.jpg"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 103px; FLOAT: right; HEIGHT: 130px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5492626371648098962" border="0" alt="" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ei_eLZ7g61M/TDm6lXYHEpI/AAAAAAAAAN4/S-gJWMoaDQM/s200/pink-ribbon.jpg" /></a></div><div align="justify">When I think of writing a tribute to Sue Michener, whose home was in Illinois, I get a little nervous. It isn't because she was an adoring mother and grandmother to her son and his daughter. It isn't because she had a career as a computer support technician (although, Lord knows, I could have used her advice since computers seem to blow up or catch fire when in my company.) Nor is it because she loved to knit or cross-stitch. It's just that . . . Sue wore the <em>funniest</em> shoes.<br /><br />In addition to all of her other talents, Sue was born a comedienne. Tricia K., Sue's friend, who is herself a five-year survivor of breast cancer, recalls that Sue "kept us all entertained while undergoing chemo, radiation, etc."<br /><br />Sue posted frequently on the <a href="http://www.komen.org/">Komen for the Cure</a> message boards. There, it is customary for members to include details of their diagnosis and treatment status in their signatures. But, Sue's sense of humor persisted in her messages right down to the last letter, and she signed off with the line, "recent Mammo...No new findings...now if I could just find my BRAIN...I'd be in business."<br /><br />Tricia remarks that Sue was not only a dear friend to her, but also a "positive force in my life" and in the lives of many others. In fact, the affection felt for Sue so permeates the Komen forums that the members have made their own tribute of sorts, by arranging a page of "Classic 'Sue Michener' Posts." One of her messages -- about pizza, of all things -- had me in stitches.<br /><blockquote>SO, the phone rings, and it’s my ‘pizza guy’ calling to tell me that THEY ARE OUT OF WHAT I ORDERED.<br /><br />What?<br /><br />HOW can a pizza place be OUT OF PIZZA? Have the planets become mis-aligned when I wasn’t looking? Did someone play the numbers engraved on the hatch in LOST for lottery numbers? OUT OF PIZZA?<br /><br />I had to sit down.</blockquote>Sue's "Shortage of Pizza" story is only one example of the way she sought to lift the spirits of her kindred breast cancer family, despite her own suffering. Make your way on over to <a href="http://www.komen.org/">Komen for the Cure</a>, become a member, and click on this link to <a href="http://apps.komen.org/forums/tm.aspx?m=243098">read about Sue's indomitable spirit in her own words</a>.<br /><br />Sadly, Sue passed away in August of 2008, at age fifty-two, only two years after her initial diagnosis. Though Sue's legacy continues to make us smile, the loss of her life and the ensuing absence of joy she brought into the lives of others has been devastating to all who knew her. She is yet another example of the hundreds of thousands of people from around the world who are diagnosed with breast cancer <em>each year</em>, all of whom demonstrate why finding a cure for this disease is so very critical.<br /><br />So, to Sue Michener, whose legacy of comedy and kindness in the face of adversity remains vivid in the memories of those who love her: tomorrow, I'd like to borrow the shoes you left behind. I already know I cannot wear them, as they are affixed with the wings of angels. But, I will carry them with me as I run, confident that your comedic spirit will fly me to the finish line. There, we will chuckle about Kramer, pizza and mammograms.<br /><br />For Sue . . . Here's to the next mile! </div>Chrishttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08758969467352230385noreply@blogger.com11tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7544826466575718586.post-26388245101940150042010-07-06T23:12:00.008-04:002010-07-06T23:57:16.071-04:00Mile Marker: Week 6 -- The iPod Glitch<div align="justify"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ei_eLZ7g61M/TDG4wWrrk0I/AAAAAAAAANY/dZAj7Sk_PBw/s1600/pinkshoes.jpg"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 75px; FLOAT: left; HEIGHT: 75px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5490372561603367746" border="0" alt="" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ei_eLZ7g61M/TDG4wWrrk0I/AAAAAAAAANY/dZAj7Sk_PBw/s200/pinkshoes.jpg" /></a>Six weeks ago, if somebody had said, "By July 4, you'll be running two consecutive miles," I never would have believed it. But, it has happened! After borrowing some very inspirational shoes from <a href="http://run-in-their-shoes.blogspot.com/2010/06/sturdiness-of-lynda-boyd.html">Linda Boyd</a> and <a href="http://run-in-their-shoes.blogspot.com/2010/07/two-pair-vanny-mam-cain.html">Vanny Mam Cain</a>, my feet have covered that magical hurdle many runners experience at about the two mile mark. And, there was another factor involved -- there was the iPod glitch. </div><br /><div align="justify">I must admit, I am one of those old fogies who mumbles frequently about the way technology seems to complicate our lives. "Who needs an iPod?" I'd ask myself. "What's wrong with my little half-pound walkman? Defrag and download . . . Blueray and Blackberry. My brain already is a high-def, unsynchronized, technological frazzle." But, I kept hearing how runners love iPods, and decided to give one a try. Now, I don't want to run without it -- except that running without it turned out to be the very thing that propelled me past a critical psychological barrier.</div><br /><div align="justify">The Week 6 schedule required four nine-minute jogging segments (a total of thirty-six running minutes), interspersed with two minute recovery walks. On the last day, near the end of the first nine-minute segment, the iPod died. Good grief. I didn't realize how dependent I'd become on that teeny little gadget. I might as well have run out of gas in the middle of the desert! For a second, I wasn't sure how to proceed, not only because I love the distraction of the music, but also because I constantly utilize the iPod's stopwatch feature. I knew I wouldn't be able to keep time accurately, so for about an instant, I considered returning home to recharge the thing and start all over. Then, I took about ten seconds to consider whether the recovery walks were really critical. In the end, I decided just to slow down when necessary, recite the names of the seven individuals on the "race for the cure wall of honor," and to keep plodding forward. It worked! I jogged an entire two and one-tenth miles, and I wasn't even really breathing hard. I was ecstatic!</div><br /><p><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ei_eLZ7g61M/TDG5Ltt332I/AAAAAAAAANo/YbRlWZGGPNs/s1600/Week+6.JPG"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 218px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5490373031643045730" border="0" alt="" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ei_eLZ7g61M/TDG5Ltt332I/AAAAAAAAANo/YbRlWZGGPNs/s400/Week+6.JPG" /></a></p><p align="justify">Next, on to Week 7, which requires four eleven-minute running intervals with one-minute recovery walks. By the end of the week, my running distance will be well over two miles. Looks as if the training plan may need to undergo some major adjustments.</p><p align="justify">Now, if only there were fifty names on that wall of honor . . . .</p><p align="justify">Here's to the next mile!</p>Chrishttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08758969467352230385noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7544826466575718586.post-31755575578527813662010-07-01T19:17:00.012-04:002010-07-01T21:45:43.144-04:00A Double Dose of Selflessness -- Vanny Mam Cain<div align="justify"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ei_eLZ7g61M/TCz4ShHDSvI/AAAAAAAAANQ/Y51Zt0NcoKc/s1600/pink-ribbon.jpg"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 119px; FLOAT: right; HEIGHT: 142px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5489035042867071730" border="0" alt="" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ei_eLZ7g61M/TCz4ShHDSvI/AAAAAAAAANQ/Y51Zt0NcoKc/s200/pink-ribbon.jpg" /></a> Vanny Mam Cain's life has taken her around the globe. She has traveled from Cambodia to Japan, lived in France and England, and crossed the Atlantic to the United States. Her feet surely have slipped in and out of many different shoes along the way. Yet, two of the pair she has worn recently are of the most extraordinary kind.<br /><br />Vanny used up one pair of shoes trampling down her first diagnosis of breast cancer. Then, when the adversary raised its ugly head a second time, she had to go shopping for a second pair. But, she must have discovered exactly the right one, because as Dennis, her husband, recalls, "We decided to live." He adds, "She has gone through the shock, the chemo, second shock, surgery, radiation, and now medicines." And, despite Vanny's own suffering, Dennis remarks that many people undergoing chemotherapy and radiation treatments at the same time as Vanny were uplifted by her spirit. "She still has a heart for her friends that she met in treatment."<br /><br />Vanny's shoes are fashioned with humor and altruism. Although she studied nursing formally, Vanny is a homemaker, and has spent many years selflessly devoted to the care of her son and husband. As Harold B. Lee once said, "The most important work you and I will ever do will be within the walls of our own homes." So it has been with Vanny's work.<br /><br />Today, Vanny's son is grown. Her husband, <a href="http://www.cainforgeorgia.com">Dennis Cain</a>, is a candidate for the State of Georgia's Commissioner of Insurance. Vanny supports her husband's endeavor with her characteristic humor and faith, and is doing quite well, I'm told.<br /><br />To Vanny Mam Cain, whose shoes have guarded her past a course of double jeopardy: if you don't mind, I'd like to borrow them in the morning, just for a little while. My feet will not fit in those shoes, for they already overflow with a double dose of selflessness and faith. But, I will carry them with me as a red sun slides out of the darkness and into the eastern sky. There, I will see a reflection of your unselfish example, and it will lead me forward into the distance.<br /><br />Here's to the next mile! </div>Chrishttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08758969467352230385noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7544826466575718586.post-44433504349815665262010-06-30T17:00:00.001-04:002010-07-01T21:43:43.340-04:00Give and Get Pink!<div align="justify"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ei_eLZ7g61M/TA_R4qGtQdI/AAAAAAAAAKg/_dBBqVPzBkQ/s1600/null_PinkLogo.gif"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 87px; FLOAT: left; HEIGHT: 124px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5480830042838483410" border="0" alt="" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ei_eLZ7g61M/TA_R4qGtQdI/AAAAAAAAAKg/_dBBqVPzBkQ/s200/null_PinkLogo.gif" /></a>Get in the pink with a giveaway!</div><br /><div align="justify">This functional (and really pink) sackpack by New Balance folds up and stores away into an attached pocket the size of a coin purse. Just unzip the purse, pull out the knapsack, and turn the purse inside out for an extra zipped compartment. Great for day trips, it's light enough to sling over your shoulders for biking or walking. It is brand-spanking new official <a href="http://www.komen.org/">Susan G. Komen For the Cure</a> merchandise and bears the organization's logo.<a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ei_eLZ7g61M/TBINSQ72fGI/AAAAAAAAALg/MlhvUibnujo/s1600/New+Balance+Foldable+SackPack2.jpg"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 120px; FLOAT: right; HEIGHT: 127px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5481458303898123362" border="0" alt="" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ei_eLZ7g61M/TBINSQ72fGI/AAAAAAAAALg/MlhvUibnujo/s200/New+Balance+Foldable+SackPack2.jpg" /></a></div><br /><p align="right"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ei_eLZ7g61M/TBIM2xyd-cI/AAAAAAAAALY/-dQvxJgU_40/s1600/New+Balance+Foldable+SackPack2.jpg"></a></p><div align="justify">Around the end of September, the sackpack will go to a randomly selected commenter who has given the time and effort to help me write a tribute to a breast cancer patient or survivor. The name of each person featured in a tribute goes onto this blog's "race for the cure wall of honor," and will be printed on my race day T-shirt.</div><br /><div align="justify">It would be my privilege to write tributes to 50 of these extraordinary people and to carry all of their names with me across the finish line on October 16. Please give a name, get in the pink and help me reach my goal by leaving your comments today!</div><br /><br /><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:78%;">"Get In The Pink" graphic courtesy of</span> <a href="http://www.carolsutton.net/download_pink-ribbon.html"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ei_eLZ7g61M/TA_XcmZlmMI/AAAAAAAAALA/09UcUOY-XXI/s1600/carolsuttonlink.jpg"><img style="WIDTH: 102px; HEIGHT: 15px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5480836157877360834" border="0" alt="" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ei_eLZ7g61M/TA_XcmZlmMI/AAAAAAAAALA/09UcUOY-XXI/s200/carolsuttonlink.jpg" /></a></a> <p></p>Chrishttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08758969467352230385noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7544826466575718586.post-28229048036515911682010-06-19T21:27:00.009-04:002010-10-25T11:19:45.046-04:00Get In the Pink With a Bambino!<a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ei_eLZ7g61M/TB1-5JguTuI/AAAAAAAAANI/CJ1_PG1wm8s/s1600/DSC00952.JPG"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 123px; FLOAT: left; HEIGHT: 200px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5484679441477947106" border="0" alt="" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ei_eLZ7g61M/TB1-5JguTuI/AAAAAAAAANI/CJ1_PG1wm8s/s200/DSC00952.JPG" /></a><br /><div align="justify">Looking for some refreshing relief from the summer heat? Get yourself a bambino! No, not<a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ei_eLZ7g61M/TB1vGuJE-xI/AAAAAAAAAMw/n6cN7KIt0iY/s1600/DSC00952.JPG"></a> the kind that immediately comes to mind. Instead, it's a watermelon, and every purchase helps support breast cancer organizations!</div><br /><div align="justify">The <a href="http://www.bambinomelons.com/about/default.asp">bambino</a> website is full of serving suggestions and nutrition information. Additionally, the site states, "Bambino watermelons were developed by <a href="https://www.monsantovegetables.com/Pages/Default.aspx">Seminis</a>, a worldwide leader in the fruit and vegetable industry, to meet customer demand for a nutritious, better tasting, more conveniently sized watermelon with no seeds. Time magazine called the Bambino melon one of the top 100 inventions of 2004."</div><br /><div align="justify">Small and round, with an emerald green exterior, these lucious fruits bear a sticker like the one displayed above. The seedless interior is dark pink to red. The bambino I tasted was the sweetest, juiciest watermelon that has ever cooled my tastebuds. They are available in the produce section at select WalMart, Sam's Club, BJ's, Food Lion and Nash Finch stores. Best of all, as the sticker advertises, a portion of the proceeds is donated to breast cancer organizations.</div><br /><div align="justify">Get one of these babies, grab a spoon and dig in. You'll truly be "in the pink"!</div>Chrishttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08758969467352230385noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7544826466575718586.post-2483735038631651372010-06-14T23:41:00.012-04:002010-06-15T12:08:12.762-04:00The Sturdiness of Lynda Boyd<div align="justify"><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_ei_eLZ7g61M/TBbazEaWDVI/AAAAAAAAAMg/kBuEuXzm-_Y/s1600/pink-ribbon.jpg"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 95px; FLOAT: right; HEIGHT: 106px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5482810167262580050" border="0" alt="" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_ei_eLZ7g61M/TBbazEaWDVI/AAAAAAAAAMg/kBuEuXzm-_Y/s200/pink-ribbon.jpg" /></a>Lynda Boyd, from Dundee, United Kingdom (Scotland), tells me she is "a very scared woman." I have no doubt that is true. But, I also know that she wears very sturdy shoes as she travels through some scary places in this world. Lynda, who will be 41 this year, was diagnosed in 2008 with breast cancer. She has endured a mastectomy, chemotherapy, radiation, and continues treatment with herceptin, which will be completed in September of 2010. </div><br /><div align="justify">As I considered Lynda's story, I was compelled to wonder what that means. What is it like, exactly, to be treated with herceptin? For breast cancer patients, herceptin is a treatment that is administered in tandem with or subsequent to chemotherapy. <a href="http://www.breastcancer.org/treatment/targeted_therapies">BreastCancer.Org</a> explains that currently, treatment of breast cancer usually involves one of three "targeted therapies." As one of these preferred therapies, herceptin works on certain cancers by arresting growth of the cells. "Cancer cells grow in an uncontrolled fashion. Herceptin works on the surface of the cancer cell by blocking the chemical signals that can stimulate this uncontrolled growth." (Click <a href="http://www.breastcancer.org/treatment/targeted_therapies">here</a> for a full discussion of herceptin and other treatment options.)</div><br /><div align="justify">Herceptin is administered only intravenously. So, at intervals ranging from once a week to once every three weeks, a patient must spend somewhere between thirty to ninety minutes at the doctor's office, watching the medication drip from a little plastic bag, into a tube, and through a needle inserted in a vein. And, as with other cancer treatments, the more immediate result of the process may be undesirable side effects, such as fever, chills, muscle aches and nausea.</div><br /><div align="justify">What would you do during those minutes, if it was your life connected to a tube, above which dangled little droplets of hope? Would you read? Work crossword puzzles? Pray that the cancer "stays away"? This is Lynda's life, after a mastectomy and radiation. This, after a long day's work, or in the middle of one, or perhaps before the work day starts, because Lynda, despite her suffering, stood resolutely in her shoes and returned to her job in November of 2009. After all, she remarks, "money plays a part in life," and, there are bills to pay.</div><br /><div align="justify">It is because of this astounding sturdiness that Lynda’s influence has become trans-continental. Along the journey, she befriended a young woman from the United States. Heidi W., a mother of two young children, has been influenced profoundly by Lynda’s resilience. “Even though she’s been through so much,” Heidi observes, “she still gets up and goes to work every day."</div><br /><div align="justify">For Lynda Boyd, whose shoes bear her up across a rocky trail: tomorrow morning, I'd like to borrow them for a little while. I know I cannot wear them, as they are too full of courage to accommodate my feet. But, I will take them with me as I run. Just for the morning, we will conquer all fear and pain, and think only of your sturdiness and resilience. All we have to do is to keep putting one foot in front of the other. </div><br /><div align="justify">Here's to the next mile!</div><br /><div align="center">* * * </div><br /><div alight="justify">For readers who are Facebook users, <a href="http://www.facebook.com/#!/lyndylou69?ref=ts">click here to write Lynda</a> an encouraging message. She'd love to hear from you! </div>Chrishttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08758969467352230385noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7544826466575718586.post-90069740028025737672010-06-13T07:59:00.004-04:002010-06-13T11:33:17.685-04:00Mile Marker: Week 3 -- A Challenge!<div align="justify"><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_ei_eLZ7g61M/TBSrbX0DyBI/AAAAAAAAAMY/23QJUdsF1uQ/s1600/pinkshoes.jpg"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 59px; FLOAT: left; HEIGHT: 65px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5482195133153921042" border="0" alt="" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_ei_eLZ7g61M/TBSrbX0DyBI/AAAAAAAAAMY/23QJUdsF1uQ/s200/pinkshoes.jpg" /></a>Thanks to <a href="http://run-in-their-shoes.blogspot.com/2010/06/wisdom-courtesy-of-linda-jessee-mills.html">Linda Jessee Mills'</a> inspirational example of courage and wisdom, training for Week 2 was a breeze. Week 3, in contrast, was tough. The jogging intervals doubled in length from two minutes to four minutes during week three. Also, the number of running days increased from three to four. For some reason, that third of the five jogging intervals was kicking my butt, and I couldn't manage to slog through more than about two of the four minutes. Yet, intervals four and five were not a problem.</div><br /><div align="justify">I decided to take a close look at the terrain to see if there is any particular reason why that portion of the route was so difficult. After all, I live on the coast, and most of the terrain is flat, flat, flat. I drove down to the area where the third segment usually begins. Sure enough, there is a nearly imperceptible rise in the road, but it stretches along a far distance. This was confirmed by one of my favorite running resources, a handy-dandy little tool on the web called "<a href="http://www.mapmyrun.com/">Map My Run</a>," which revealed that over the course of the last three-quarters of a mile or so, the elevation gradually increases from three feet above sea level at the lowest point on the route, to around thirty-nine feet above sea level. No, it's not a mountain, but the elevation increase certainly explains the difficulty I was experiencing. I do have this modified (but, improved!) ticker issue to address.<br /><br />With that information in hand, I employed an old trick. When the third segment began on the last running day of the week, I slowed the pace. I mean, I really slowed the pace. Onlookers may have wondered why I bothered to "run" at all. I could have walked as quickly. Then, instead of looking far ahead, I looked up only occasionally, just to be aware of traffic. Mostly though, my eyes were planted on the road just a few feet away. I thought of nothing but <a href="http://run-in-their-shoes.blogspot.com/2010/06/vision-of-libby-holter.html">Libby Holter</a>, <a href="http://run-in-their-shoes.blogspot.com/2010/06/fortitude-as-known-by-kaira-w.html">Kaira W.</a>, and quite literally, putting one foot in front of the other. With Libby Holter's vision, I imagined a clear view of reaching the desired goal. And, by drawing from Kaira W.'s fortitude, I saw myself accomplishing the task, no matter what was required. Thanks to inspiration from those ladies, not only did I complete that most difficult third segment, but also easily finished the fourth and fifth segments.</div><br /><div align="justify">Which brings us to the end of Week 3. That ominous old training calendar is filling up with more and more green slashes!</div><p align="center"><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ei_eLZ7g61M/TBSrB0C42xI/AAAAAAAAAMQ/A8RN6NsH3eU/s1600/Week+3.JPG"><img style="WIDTH: 400px; HEIGHT: 307px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5482194694055713554" border="0" alt="" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ei_eLZ7g61M/TBSrB0C42xI/AAAAAAAAAMQ/A8RN6NsH3eU/s400/Week+3.JPG" /></a></p><div align="justify">And, in case you're wondering just how much mileage is actually involved, I've done the math. The whole route takes approximately 35 minutes to complete. 20 of those minutes are spent jogging, so that's 57% of the time spent jogging. <a href="http://www.mapmyrun.com/">Map My Run</a> tells me the distance of the route is 1.9 miles. Oh, yeah! I'm jogging 1.083 miles!</div><br /><div align="justify">Today's cross-training will involve an energizing bike ride, which, to my surprise, I've come to enjoy. I'll also catch up on a little strength training, since I ran out of time on Wednesday. That's an example of the beauty of this particular training schedule. It's very flexible, and if one day's activity is missed, it can be combined with another day's activity.</div><br /><div align="justify">Then, on to Week 4, where the walking intervals decrease to two minutes, and the jogging intervals increase to five minutes. It's a piece of cake, right?</div><br /><div align="justify">I'm just lovin' my shoes . . . so, here's to the next mile! </div>Chrishttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08758969467352230385noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7544826466575718586.post-85096374329474557692010-06-10T15:49:00.014-04:002010-07-01T17:03:49.794-04:00Fortitude, As Known by Kaira W.<div align="justify"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ei_eLZ7g61M/TBD5GIXqUNI/AAAAAAAAALQ/5cH8w4uz8EM/s1600/pink-ribbon.jpg"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 106px; FLOAT: right; HEIGHT: 99px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5481154630231150802" border="0" alt="" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ei_eLZ7g61M/TBD5GIXqUNI/AAAAAAAAALQ/5cH8w4uz8EM/s200/pink-ribbon.jpg" /></a>I was surprised to learn recently that a continuing controversy exists within the medical community about the value of breast self-examination. But, don’t tell that to Kaira W., who discovered a lump in her breast while performing a regular self-exam, and subsequently was diagnosed very recently with breast cancer. Yet, Kaira wears shoes that are lined with fortitude, propelling her forward with a remarkable will to endure, no matter what is required. </div><div align="justify"><br />Kaira, a 32 year-old mother, whose three children all are under the age of 6, was faced with having to make critical decisions about her future and her family’s well-being. She immediately scheduled a double-mastectomy. As Kaira’s friend, Diane, describes, Kaira felt this aggressive solution to her illness was “the best way to protect her and her family's health.”</div><div align="justify"><br />Diane admits that she is “awed and amazed” by Kaira’s extraordinary bravery. Despite her own dilemma, Kaira ". . . makes sure to get the word out on every step of her journey so that people understand it could happen to them and that we are not too young to get this horrible illness.”</div><div align="justify"><br />With an eye toward supporting Kaira’s effort to “get the word out,” this tribute would be incomplete if it didn’t address breast self-examination, or BSE. As previously mentioned, the medical community seems to have divided into two camps: a) those who believe BSE has little or no value; and b) those who believe BSE is one of the primary instruments in the early detection of the disease.</div><br /><div align="justify">As I considered the results of my own review of a number of articles on the subject, the dissenting conclusion seemed to be that BSE is of little value because:</div><ol><li><div align="justify">women don't do it; and</div></li><li><div align="justify">women don't do it.</div></li></ol><p align="justify">In her article <a href="http://www.doctorsofusc.com/condition/document/29168"><em>Value of Breast Self-exam Questioned</em></a>, author Elizabeth Smoots, MD, describes some of the difficulties women experience with this task: "Besides being difficult to do well, it’s hard to keep performing BSE consistently each and every month." Similarly, Mary K. Salazar and William B. Carter reported in their 1994 study entitled, <em><a href="http://her.oxfordjournals.org/cgi/content/abstract/9/3/343">A Qualitative Description of Breast Self-Examination Beliefs</a></em>, that fewer than 40% of American women perform BSE with any regularity, and describe a variety of attitudes that contribute to that outcome, including ". . . too much time to do, too difficult, embarrassment about self-touch. . . ." Some estimate that the number of American women who do not perform BSE could be as high as 80%. Finally, there is consistent mention throughout the dissenting literature that those women who <em>do</em> perform BSE regularly often find benign lumps related to transient, cyclical changes, resulting in a higher rate of unnecessary biopsies.</p><p align="justify">So, what are practical options for women under the age of 40 who are not encouraged to have regular mammograms? Regardless of discussions to the contrary, much more information is available that underscores the importance of performing BSE regularly beginning at age 20 as <em>part</em> of a three-pronged approach to early detection. This comprehensive approach also includes clinical breast examinations (CBE) performed by a health professional every three years (or annually as we age), and mammograms, as discussed in a previous <a href="http://run-in-their-shoes.blogspot.com/2010/06/wisdom-courtesy-of-linda-jessee-mills.html">blog</a>.<br /><br />Multiple sites provide fabulous and detailed information for performing a BSE. In addition to <a href="http://www.komen.org/">Komen for the Cure</a>, try out <a href="http://www.webmd.com/breast-cancer/guide/breast-self-exam">WebMD</a>, <a href="http://cancer.about.com/od/breastcancer/ht/breastselfexam.htm">About.Com</a>, <a href="http://www.cancer.org/docroot/cri/content/cri_2_6x_how_to_perform_a_breast_self_exam_5.asp">the American Cancer Society</a>, or <a href="http://www.breastcancer.org/symptoms/testing/types/self_exam/bse_steps.jsp?gclid=CL3hyfnmk6ICFQyjiQod7hvkbg">BreastCancer.Org</a> for excellent guidance. One last site is worthy of mention because it also offers free shower card reminders. Go to <a href="http://www.healthywomen.org/content/publication/breast-self-exam-shower-card">HealthyWomen</a> and download your free card, which was published in April of 2008 by the National Women's health Resource Center, Inc. Or, click on the image below for a larger version, print it out, stash it in a ziplock bag, and hang it in the shower.<br /></p><p align="center"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ei_eLZ7g61M/TBD4n0vy56I/AAAAAAAAALI/pOhU_6QifkQ/s1600/Self-Exam+Shower+Card.JPG"><img style="WIDTH: 235px; HEIGHT: 367px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5481154109567592354" border="0" alt="" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ei_eLZ7g61M/TBD4n0vy56I/AAAAAAAAALI/pOhU_6QifkQ/s200/Self-Exam+Shower+Card.JPG" /></a></p><p align="justify">Regardless of the guidance you choose for BSE, a number of common threads run through them. The first one is an emphasis on familiarity. Through regular BSE, you will become familiar enough with your breasts to recognize changes or symptoms that should be reported to your health care provider. Other common themes include the following: </p><ul><li><div align="justify">Always discuss with your health care professional the types and frequency of screening appropriate for your history, risk and age.</div></li><li><div align="justify">Always combine BSE with CBE, and when appropriate, with mammograms.</div></li><li><div align="justify">Perform a BSE the week after your period, or on the first day of the month if you no longer are menstruating.</div></li><li><div align="justify">Perform BSE consistently, so that you are familiar with what is normal for your breasts.</div></li><li><div align="justify">Try to perform the examination in the shower. If that is not your preference, perform it lying down.</div></li><li><div align="justify">Check areas outside the breast, from the armpit to the collar bone, and below the breast, in addition to the breast itself and the nipple.</div></li><li><div align="justify">Report any changes in size or breast shape.</div></li><li><div align="justify">Report lumps, hard knots or thick areas.</div></li><li><div align="justify">Report swelling or redness.</div></li><li><div align="justify">Report any puckering or dimpling of the skin or nipple.</div></li><li><div align="justify">Report itchy, scaly sore or rash on the nipple or skin.</div></li><li><div align="justify">Report sudden discharge from the nipple.</div></li><li><div align="justify">Report new and continuous pain in a specific spot.</div></li></ul><p align="justify">But, hey, enough of that serious stuff. <a href="http://www.checkyourboobies.org/">Check Your Boobies</a>! No kidding -- that's the name of the organization, whose mission is to ". . . educate women about breast health in a frank, fun, and fear-free manner. [They] are dedicated to the prevention and early detection of Breast Cancer." And, if you're tired of Tupperware or Pampered Chef parties, make sure to take note of the resources and testimonials on this site for planning your very own "CYB Party."</p><p align="justify">So, for Kaira W., who is compelled to spread the news about the importance of BSE: I'd like to borrow your shoes in the morning, though I know I cannot wear them. Instead, I'll carry them with me and draw from the fortitude that fills them. Together, we'll go forward, no matter what is required. </p><p align="justify">Here's to the next mile!</p>Chrishttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08758969467352230385noreply@blogger.com1